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What is Sexual Orientation?

Our sexual orientation is who we are attracted to - is not a choice we make. You may be bisexual, and attracted to people of both sexes. You may be heterosexual, and attracted to people of the other sex. You may be homosexual (often called lesbian or gay), that is, attracted to people of your same sex. For many young people, exploring their sexuality with someone of the same sex is a natural part of growing up. These normal feelings may continue through your adult lives. If you are struggling with questions about your sexual orientation, be sure to speak with a trusted adult and/or gay or lesbian organization in your area. A lot of people think that some sexual activities are just for heterosexual people, or that others are just for lesbians and gay men. The truth is that all people, regardless of their sexual orientation, may do all things. The difference is that gay men and lesbians do these activities with people of the same sex as themselves. Bisexual people do these activities with people of either sex. Heterosexual people do these activities with people of the opposite sex. Lesbian and gay relationships, like heterosexual relationships, can be fulfilling and can last a very long time. All of these sexual orientations are part of being human.

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