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Provide parents/caregivers and their children with opportunities to practice communicating about sexuality issues.

To enhance parent-child communication about sexuality issues, programs that include both parent and child participation offer a unique opportunity for parents and children to support one another in their efforts to have ongoing dialogues about sexuality. Providing facts about sexuality and sexual health as well as exploring family values, attitudes, and beliefs, multi-session or single-session programs can increase comfort with discussing sexuality-related topics.

The research tells us that programs for parents and their children can: increase the knowledge of both groups; can model discussions of sexual topics and increase comfort with the discussions of sexual topics; provide opportunities in the group and immediately afterwards for young people and their parents to talk about sexual topics with each other; and accomplish this in a comfortable environment where everyone expects they are going to talk about sexuality and where they see everyone else doing so (click here for information about this evaluated program).


Growing TogetherSM

Organization: Girls Inc., Indianapolis, IN

Original Target Audience: Girls nine to 11 years of age and their parents and caregivers nationwide

Languages: Materials and sessions available in English and Spanish

"This gave me a better idea of where my daughter's head is," a mother said after participating in the Growing TogetherSM program.1

Sponsored by Girls Inc., Growing TogetherSM is a program that was implemented in 1985 and revised in 2001 (click here for information about this evaluated program). The curriculum includes five interactive one-and-a-half to two-hour sessions in English or Spanish designed to help girls and their parents/caregivers communicate more comfortably about sexuality.

The first session, an orientation to help parents/caregivers build their comfort level with sexuality issues, prepares them to listen to and talk with their children in a nonjudgmental way. The remaining sessions, for both parents/caregivers and girls, address anatomy, puberty, sexual health, HIV/AIDS, myths and facts about sexuality, communication, and values.The curriculum also includes a pre-/post-test evaluation and provides information about administering, coding, and scoring the tests as well as other resources to complement the program's implementation. Only those organizations licensed by Girls Inc. can utilize the curriculum and implement the program.

  Lessons Learned  

Growing TogetherSM

"The program is a good experience for mothers (or other adults such as aunts, grandmothers, and older sisters) and girls. As with many programs targeting parents, affiliates have found it critical to provide incentives to overcome obstacles to parents' attendance or participation. They have done this by providing transportation or vouchers; dinners for mothers, daughters, and younger siblings; babysitting for younger children; or other incentives and gifts."

-Girls Inc.

For more information:

Growing TogetherSM
Girls Inc.
Healthy Girls Initiative
National Resource Center
441 West Michigan Street
Indianapolis, IN 46202
Phone: 317/634-7546
Fax: 317/634-3024
Web site: http://www.girlsinc.org


Nosotras Viviremos (UPDATED)

Organization: National Coalition of Advocates for Students, Boston, MA

Original Target Audience: Latina farmworking mothers and their daughters 10 to 18 years of age nationwide

Language: Materials and sessions available in English and Spanish

The Nosotras Viviremos curricula, updated in 2001 by the National Coalition of Advocates for Students, are two parallel training manuals: one addressing the issues and concerns of farmworking mothers/mentors and the other addressing the issues of pre-adolescent and adolescent farmworking girls. Each consists of six units, including basic HIV/AIDS/STD information, exercises, stories, and a set of handouts that can be easily reproduced and distributed to participants.The intervention is designed for implementation in four sessions, with each session lasting between two and three hours.

Nosotras Viviremos provides mothers with the opportunity to develop and practice skills to help their daughters adopt and sustain healthy and safe sexual decisions. Each curriculum addresses intergenerational stresses between mothers and daughters and how these affect positive communication.

The curricula are grounded in social cognitive theory, social influence interventions, and Paulo Freire's philosophy of dialogical education. They are designed to provide participants with an opportunity to explore self-identity without discounting personal experiences or values and to use self-reflection to move toward an understanding of the need to address the reality of sexuality, HIV, and STDs in their lives.

National Coalition of Advocates for Students no longer exists however, this curriculum is available at The Mary S. Calderone Library at SIECUS.


Becoming a Teen Badge

Organization: Planned Parenthood of North East Pennsylvania, Trexlertown, PA

Original Target Audience: Latina and White girls in grades four through seven and their parents and caregivers in the local suburban community

Language: Sessions available in English and Spanish

In Pennsylvania, Junior Girl Scouts in three councils—Penn's Woods, Great Valley, and Scranton Pocono—can fulfill several parts of the requirements for their Becoming a Teen Badge by attending a workshop designed to provide puberty information and enhance family communication (developed by Planned Parenthood of North East Pennsylvania in 1998) with their moms, step-moms, grandmothers, or other adult females. Before the workshop, which is conducted either in English or Spanish, the mothers (or other accompanying adult) receive a packet of resources and a workshop outline designed to increase their comfort level with the material. Workshops are held at Girl Scout troop meetings and are typically an hour and a half long. The ultimate goals of the program are to open the door for moms and girls to talk about sexuality and to increase the girls' awareness and comfort with body changes and the increased freedom and responsibility associated with puberty.

  Lessons Learned  

Becoming a Teen Badge

"The question 'How the sperm gets into the woman to fertilize the egg?' always comes up. We prepare the moms for the question and help them with continued discussion."

-Planned Parenthood of North East Pennsylvania

For more information:

Becoming a Teen Badge
Planned Parenthood of North East Pennsylvania
Susan Smith, Director of Education
P. O. Box 813
Trexlertown, PA 18087
Phone: 800/935-0689, extension 124
Fax: 610/481-0486
E-mail: susan.smith@ppfa.org
Web site: http://www.ppnep.org


Parent-Child Human Sexuality Workshop

Organization: Family Guidance Center, St. Joseph, MO

Original Target Audience: Parents/caregivers and their children in St. Joseph and smaller communities throughout Northwest MO

Language: Materials and sessions in English

 

Organization: Hastings Family Planning, Hastings, NE

Original Target Audience: African American, Latino, and White parents/caregivers and their children in the local urban and rural communities

Language: Sessions in English

Since 1998, Hastings Family Planning in Hastings, NE, has successfully replicated the St. Joseph Parent-Child Human Sexuality Workshop in both urban and rural settings (click here for information about this evaluated program). In response to a need in the community, Hastings Family Planning is working on a Spanish-language version of the original workshop. In addition, a teacher in the Hastings public school system attended the workshop with one of her developmentally disabled students and decided to modify the five-week program into a two-and-a-half hour workshop specifically designed for developmentally disabled young women to attend with their parents/caregivers. She will soon modify the workshop for young men.

  Lessons Learned  

Parent-Child Human Sexuality Workshop

"We keep the class sizes to no more than 30 people: 15 parent-child pairs. Also, many parents/caregivers have brought younger siblings to the workshop when they are at the appropriate age."

-Hastings Family Planning

For more information:

Parent-Child Human Sexuality Workshop
Family Guidance Center
Leechia Jones
510 Francis Street
St. Joseph, MO 64501
Phone: 816/364-1501
Fax: 816/364-6735
E-mail: ljones@familyguidance.org

Ordering information for curriculum:

YWCA
Jean Brown
304 North 8th Street
St. Joseph, MO 64501
Phone: 816/232-4481
Fax: 816/232-4494
E-mail: ywca-1@ccp.com

Hastings Family Planning
422 North Hastings, Suite 204
Hastings, NE 68901
Phone: 402/463-5687
Fax: 402/463-0571


Sharing Healthy Adolescent and Parent Experiences (UPDATED)

Organization: Camp Fire USA, Orange County Council, Tustin, CA

Original Target Audience: Parents/caregivers and their children nine to 16 years of age in the local urban and suburban community

Language: Sessions available in English, Spanish, and Vietnamese

Sharing Healthy Adolescent and Parent Experiences (SHAPE) is a program in Orange County, CA, to help parents and young people communicate about puberty and other sexuality-related issues. Originally implemented in 1994 by the Coalition for Children, Adolescents, and Parents, it was acquired by the Camp Fire USA, Orange County Council in 1999. Charging a fee to cover costs, Camp Fire USA offers two courses that include at least 10 pairs of parents and children. SHAPE classes are requested by schools, PTAs, faith communities, community-based groups, and private homes.

Available in English, Spanish, and Vietnamese, SHAPE I offers parent/daughter and parent/son classes designed for youth nine to 12 years of age and their parents. Scheduled one night a week for two hours, the course runs for five weeks. The first session is for parents only and is intended to explain the topics and materials, address how to be an askable parent, utilize teachable moments and avoid absolutes, as well as answer questions. Topics addressed throughout the remaining sessions include anatomy, puberty, HIV/AIDS, menstruation, pregnancy and childbirth, hygiene, abstinence and contraception, peer pressure, and building relationships. Overall, the objectives of Shape are for participants to increase their knowledge of reproductive health and pregnancy, for young people to increase confidence in their ability to communicate with parents and caregivers, and for parents and caregivers to be able to discuss reproductive health issues and convey their values to their children.

Available in English and Spanish, SHAPE II consists of co-ed classes designed for young people 13 to 16 years of age and their parents.

Scheduled one night a week for two hours, the course runs for five weeks. Topics addressed include anatomy, STDs, healthy relationships, decision-making, sexual pressure, abstinence, contraception, and parenting (using Baby Think It Over dolls).

  Words of Wisdom  

“This program empowers participants by providing knowledge, understanding, and skills to deal with sexual development. We have learned that parents need guidance and reassurance talking to their children about sexuality. And children enjoy learning in a fun, safe environment with other kids their age. The children gain more comfort with the topic and begin using words they have not used before. Children find their parents more approachable than before and often a bond is established, serving as a protective factor against teen pregnancy and other problems.”

-Jennifer Barber

For more information:

Sharing Healthy Adolescent and Parent Experiences
Camp Fire USA, Orange County Council
Jennifer Barber, MPH
Director of Family Life Education
14742 Plaza Drive, Suite 205
Tustin, CA 92780
Phone: 714/838-9991, extension 27
Fax: 714/838-0567
E-mail: jennifer@campfireusaoc.org
Web site: http://www.campfireoc.org


Teen Outreach Program (UPDATED)

Organization: Cornerstone Consulting Group, Houston, TX

Original Target Audience: Girls attending an after-school program in the St. Louis, MO public schools

Language: Materials and sessions in English

 

Organization: Family Service of Roanoke Valley, Roanoke, VA

Original Target Audience: Parents/caregivers and young people in participating middle schools and high schools in Roanoke City and Roanoke County, VA

Language: Materials and sessions in English

Initiated in 1978 by the St. Louis Public Schools, Teen Outreach was originally an after-school program targeting high school girls. In 1981, it was sponsored by the Junior League of St. Louis and the Danforth Foundation. And, in 1987 it was adopted by the Association of Junior Leagues International as part of their national youth agenda.

Teen Outreach Program (TOP), managed by Cornerstone Consulting since 1995, is a youth development program for young people between the ages of 12 and 17. Sponsored by 125 organizations with more than 200 sites, TOP is a national program targeting middle and high school students in a variety of settings where they routinely meet, reaching over 15,000 youth in the continental United States, Virgin Islands, and emerging programs in Nigeria and Canada.

TOP integrates community service; classroom-based activities using the Changing Scenes curriculum (with a sexuality component); and service learning, a strategy that helps young people connect community service experience to classroom learning, and, ultimately, to their lives.

Since 1990, one TOP model sponsored by Family Service of Roanoke Valley (FSRV) in Roanoke,VA, has complemented this youth development program by including a family involvement component.

Offering five two-hour sessions in the evening, FSRV partners with two local school districts (Roanoke City Schools and Roanoke County Schools) to offer "family night out" gatherings for families and students in local high schools. The program provides dinner and child care as incentives to increase participation. During one of the five sessions, a parent-only workshop is held for 40 minutes that addresses parent-child communication about sexuality-related issues. This workshop aims to increase the comfort level of parents and provides basic sexuality information. Family Service of Roanoke Valley also partners with three after-school programs (West End Center for Youth, St. John's Community Youth Program, and Presbyterian Community Center Pathways Program in Roanoke), offering "family night out" gatherings for middle school students in which they present their parent-only workshop.

For more information:

Teen Outreach Program
Cornerstone Consulting Group, Inc.
Gayle Waden
One Greenway Plaza, Suite 550
Houston,TX 77046
Phone: 713/627-2322
Fax: 713/627-3006
E-mail: gwaden@cornerstone.to
Web site: http://www.cornerstone.to

Family Service of Roanoke Valley
Cheri W. Hartman, Ph.D., Director,Youth Development
P. O. Box 6600
Roanoke,VA 24017
Phone: 540/563-5316
Fax: 540/563-5254
E-mail: chartman@fsrv.org


Reference

  1. Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States (SIECUS), "Where Parents and Caregivers Can Find Help," SIECUS Report, 2001, vol. 29, no. 2, pp. 12-13.


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